Focused

Life is not fair! Or is it? A few years ago, my AP Spanish class was debating this statement and several of the students said that they believe life is fair. I was somewhat surprised by their statement and asked them to explain. They shared that life is unfair to everyone and that is what makes it fair. I had never considered that perspective, but as they elaborated – it does not matter where a person lives, who their parents are or where they go to school – I realized that they were on to something. At some point, we have all faced a time when we felt life was not fair. As my students seemed to have figured out, we can’t always control what happens in life; however, we can definitely control how we react to it.

The reality is, throughout life we are either in training or facing some time of trial or storm. Both seasons require a determined focus. I love King Solomon’s words in Ecclesiastes 3:1 “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven.” Whether we are on a mountaintop and things are going incredibly well or we are in a valley when everything seems to be going wrong, we must stay focused. We must keep our eye on eternity. 

We can learn many lessons from athletes. They train hard every single day to prepare for their races. Even when they do not feel like it, they do it anyway. As they prepare for a race or a competition, they make sure they are eating correctly, drinking plenty of water and practicing so that when the race comes, their bodies will be ready. Just as athletes focus on their training so that they can win their races, as Christians, we need to be focused on the race we are running. Unlike the athlete, we do not know when the trials are going to hit or the storms are going to rage. That makes it even more important that we prepare diligently every single day so that our hearts are ready when satan wages war. 

While athletes are training for trophies and medals and bragging rights, we are training for the ultimate finish line – running through the pearly gates. Like many athletes who give it all and literally collapse across the finish line, I want to collapse into Heaven completely exhausted and used up. I do not want there to be an ounce of anything left in me. I want to fall at the feet of my Father and say, “I used it all. Every bit of energy, strength, every ounce of talent that you gave me. I used it up in the race to get here.” 

It is easy to say that we need to be prepared, but what are some specific training strategies?

  1. Keep your heart soaked in God’s truths: Just like many businesses and schools have a mission and vision statement to focus on, I need God’s word. Pick a scripture and make that your focus for the next few days or week. Make it your verse to live by. If you are looking for one to start with, how about Hebrews 12:1-2 “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” 
  2. Keep a list of victories, no matter how small they may seem to you! It can include small things that you have overcome or ways that you see God working. When things are hard, read through those victories. Just keeping a list makes me more intentional about seeking the good everyday.
  3. Commit to attending worship. We need community. I get it. Sometimes we don’t feel like going. It takes a huge amount of energy to get little ones ready for church and then to wrestle them during communion and worship. We get behind at work and need to catch up. Remember the athlete. She trains even when she does not feel like it. This training is even more important. Not only do you need other Christians. They need you. Have you ever sat next to a fire and watched the logs burn? What happens if you take an ember out of that fire and set it to the side? It loses its flame. It can’t burn on its own. We can’t do it alone. 

Every decision we make either draws us closer to God or slowly slips us away from Him. When we mess up, when we skip a training day or completely fail a trial – it happens to all athletes – don’t quit. Pick up where you left off and keep going. It doesn’t matter if today’s achievements are baby steps – barely noticeable by anyone but you and God or giant steps that the world sees. Forward progress is forward progress and puts you one step closer to your goal. Then, get up the next day and do it again. Until the day you hear those sweet words, “Well done, good and faithful servant!”

Under Construction

It seems like the last several times that we have been on the interstate, we have hit an area of construction that has either really slowed us down or resulted in us taking an alternate route. It is so frustrating to be cruising along making great time (beating the ETA on the GPS) when all of a sudden traffic comes to a halt. There is nowhere to go and nothing that can be done except to settle in and inch along with all of the other cars dealing with the same frustration. So, we settle in, and I usually stew – over the inconvenience, the loss of time and the lack of control I have over the situation.

Recently, I have found myself thinking about how I am also under construction. Just like that road that needs a facelift, I often need to have some work done on my heart. Too often I let the world seep in and take root, causing me to worry and stress, again, over things that I can’t control. 

This construction on the heart takes time and patience; neither of which I ever feel like I have enough to spare. And, it never comes at a convenient time in life. It isn’t something that we can put on a calendar and plan around. It is something that happens and we have no choice but to settle in and inch along knowing that it could be a slow process. 

I have been under construction for several years now learning to handle grief in a healthy way. I feel like I have lost a lot of time that I needed to be doing other things. But too often, I just haven’t had the energy or the ability to take on other tasks.

Sometimes in life we face large construction projects; other times we are under construction for a shorter period of time. One promise that we can hold on to in scripture is this:

“Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 1:6

A good work has begun in each of us and God will see to it that it is carried out. Sometimes that requires a little construction, something that is super inconvenient. However, I know that when they finish that construction on the interstate, it is going to be a nice road to travel, and I know that when I allow God to work on me, I am better for it and can do more to serve and honor Him. That is worth the inconvenience of time.